I know we've talked about this before, but man, when I was a teeny tiny college fandom nerd, it was grandmas on the internet (literal grandmas) who taught me a shitton about being a good community member and fandom and just life. I'm still friends with some of them. (And I also wonder where these teens think the money to support their media comes from....it's us fandom olds, did you know.)

....sandboxing here too, but yeah. The exceptionalism of America is so bad.