I find the elitism around FromSoftware games in particular to be the kind of exhausting that just makes me vaguely never want to talk to people about video games ever again. (And then I get annoyed at my college self who was mad that games had been getting easier from 1994 to 2000, and now-me is like "oh my god can I turn off all the combat and just read it like a book please." The things we learn when we become exhausted adults with jobs and chronic illness?)