My take on spoilers is absolutely that I want to know that's what I'm hitting. Just tag them and, ideally, give me a method (such as clear space so I can click away without seeing, or a cut tag, or highlight-to-read) to avoid the spoiler if that's what I want to do. Sometimes I want spoilers! Sometimes it really impacts my enjoyment of the material to have been unwillingly spoiled. IDK. Is it weird to use the phrase "Informed consent" for spoilers?