Allies Are Excellent, but You Have to Self-Advocate

One thing I totally forgot during the pandemic is how hosts will seat you at a garbage table if they, like, think your hairstyle is stupid or don't like your shoes.

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It's totally within your right to get angry sometimes, even if the stakes seem relatively low. You have to choose your battles, of course, but I really do think that fighting small battles helps you gain experience to use in larger and more important conflicts.